Pastors’ Hangover

When Heaven Goes Quiet: Wrestling with God in the Waiting

In this episode of the Easter Hangover... What do you do when the miracle hasn't come yet and the tomb is still sealed? Dive into the silence of Silent Saturday—the day between the agony of the cross and the triumph of the resurrection. It's the space where grief, doubt, and hope collide.
 
We ask the hard questions: Why doesn’t God always speak when we need Him most? How do you hold onto faith when your prayers seem to echo into silence? And what if your life feels like a never-ending Saturday—waiting, wondering, wrestling? Join us as we talk about what God might be doing in the quiet, how to stay grounded in the in-between, and why the silence doesn’t mean He’s gone.
 
This one’s for anyone who has ever felt stuck between heartbreak and healing, or faith and fear.

Easter 2025: Rejection Builds Your Faith

What if rejection wasn’t a roadblock, but a refining fire? In this episode of Pastors’ Hangover, we dive into the uncomfortable but powerful reality that rejection isn’t the end of your calling—it might just be the beginning of deeper faith. From missed invitations to hard conversations, we unpack why being bold in your belief means risking a “no” and why every “no” can strengthen your “yes” to God. Whether you’ve been ghosted, ignored, or shut down, this one reminds you: your faith isn’t fragile—it’s being forged.

The God Who Fights for the Lost, the Found, and the Karens

On this week’s Pastors Hangover, we dive into the God who fights for the lost, the found, and even the Karens. We explore the powerful lessons from the parable of the prodigal son and how Jesus always stands in the gap, fighting for those who need grace the most. Love isn’t just about welcoming the return of the lost; it’s about actively pursuing them when they wander.
But when is it time to chase the lost and when do we wait? How do we respond when our outreach doesn’t seem to get a response? Plus, we tackle the use of modern terms like "Karen" in the pulpit—does it add value to the message, or distract from the truth?
We also address a hot topic: the controversial story in John 8. Is it truly biblical, or should it be questioned? If you're grappling with forgiveness, evangelism, or how to love in a broken world, this episode is packed with insights you won’t want to miss.
Last Weekend's Message: https://youtu.be/n525yVB4HX0?feature=shared
In This Episode:Hal MayerMelissa VicinanzaDaryl BlackCraig Altman

The Power of Intercessory Prayer: How to Stand in the Gap

What happens when you combine fasting, intercessory prayer, and evangelism?In this episode of Pastors Hangover, we explore how prayer and fasting can bring spiritual breakthroughs, strengthen our faith, and help us reach those who don’t yet know God.
Pastor Craig shares personal testimonies of life-changing evangelism moments, while Pastor Daryl unpacks what it means for Jesus to be the Great Intercessor. Whether you're new to fasting or looking for ways to deepen your prayer life, this conversation will equip and inspire you.Tune in for practical insights, biblical wisdom, and encouragement to take your faith to the next level.
AI Photo for Pastor Hal's Birthday: https://www.instagram.com/p/DHtkrhkR8-p/?img_index=1
Last Weekend's Message: https://youtu.be/_arizeINNbM?feature=shared 
21 Days of Prayer and Fasting - Join The Movement: https://gfcflorida.com/21days
In This Episode:Craig Altman (Almond Joy Old Guy)Hal Mayer (Unflattering AI Guy)Daryl BlackMelissa Vicinanza

Is This God’s Voice or Mine? The Challenge of Spiritual Discernment

How do you know if that voice in your head is God speaking—or just your own thoughts? Spiritual discernment is one of the most powerful yet challenging aspects of faith. In this episode, we dive into how to recognize God’s guidance, the dangers of trusting our emotions too much, and what the Bible says about discerning truth. 
 
What you'll learn:
How to tell the difference between God’s voice and your own thoughts
The role of Scripture in sharpening your discernment
Why feelings can mislead us—and how to avoid deception
How to handle difficult relationships with wisdom and grace
What to do when bitterness starts to settle in your heart
If you’ve ever struggled with making the right decisions or wondered if you’re truly hearing from God, this episode is for you. Let’s uncover the keys to stronger spiritual discernment together!
 
Last Weekend's Message:https://youtu.be/5yiw1_7ASBY?feature=shared
 
In This Episode:Hal Mayer - Happy Birthday!!!!Daryl BlackCraig AltmanMelissa Vicinanza
 
Shoutout to Unreal Candy for being with us for Pastor Hal's Birthday!

Counseling, Conflict & Christ: The Art of Tough Conversations

Struggling with difficult conversations in your relationships, workplace, or church? In this episode, we dive into the science of communication and why humility, vulnerability, and grace are essential for handling conflict.
 
What You'll Learn:
The key to balancing truth and love in tough conversations
How pride—both good and bad—impacts communication
Why defensiveness shuts down healthy dialogue (and how to avoid it)
Practical steps for resolving conflict in a Christ-centered way
How to set boundaries with grace without feeling guilty
The biggest mistakes people make when handling tension
Why great leaders must embrace hard conversations
How counseling, emotional triggers, and past wounds affect communication
Whether you’re looking to improve your marriage, leadership, or conflict resolution skills, this episode is packed with practical, biblical wisdom to help you speak with confidence, listen with empathy, and build stronger relationships.
 
This episode is sponsored by: https://yeomanstopgolfswingsuite.com/tampa/
 
Last Weekend's Message: https://youtu.be/67KmHPK-x9Q?feature=shared
 
In This Episode:Craig AltmanMelissa VicinanzaDaryl BlackHal Mayer

The Science of Listening: How to Improve Your Relationships Today

Struggling with miscommunication, constant distractions, or feeling unheard?
In a world dominated by social media, short attention spans, and endless noise, listening has become a lost art—but it’s one of the most powerful tools for building stronger relationships, deeper faith, and better leadership. In this episode, we break down the science of listening, why most people are bad at it, and how improving this skill can change your life. Learn how social media addiction is rewiring our ability to focus, why Jesus DID listen to everyone but knew when to take action, and the dangerous consequences of ignoring God and others. Plus, we ask YOU the #1 thing people in church wish their pastors would hear. Whether you want to become a better spouse, friend, leader, or believer, this episode is packed with biblical truth, practical tips, and hard-hitting insights to help you listen better and live wiser.

Speaking the Truth in Love: Navigating Tough Conversations

In this episode of The Pastors' Hangover, we dive into Hal's message "The Power of Our Words" and explore how intentional communication impacts our relationships.
In This Episode We Cover:
🗣️ The significance of words and how they affect us
👨‍👩‍👧 Parenting and the influence of language on children’s development
💍 Marriage communication tips, including setting boundaries and taking time-outs
👥 Navigating friendships, negative words, and gossip 💬 Speaking truth in love and handling slip-ups with grace

Should Pastors Be Rich? Let’s Talk About It

Money and faith—two topics that make people uncomfortable, especially when they collide. Should Christians pursue wealth, or does God want us to live simply? And what about pastors—should they be driving luxury cars or living paycheck to paycheck? In this episode of The Pastors Hangover, we tackle the tough questions: Is tithing still relevant if the Old Testament law was fulfilled? Do flashy, wealthy pastors hurt the church’s reputation? And when it comes to trusting God, is it harder when you have nothing or when you have everything? Let’s have the conversation no one wants to have—but everyone needs to.
 
Pictures of the Pastors’ Being Wealthy:https://www.instagram.com/pastorshangover/
Previous Messages in “Banking on God” Series
P Craig Interviewing His Brother: https://youtu.be/ChD7x7xD-Wc?feature=shared
P Daryl on Tithing: https://youtu.be/CLTIWnx0E2U?feature=shared
P Craig 4 Kets to Financial Freedom: https://youtu.be/AKOc7fMhj4U?feature=shared

Is God Against Wealth? Should Christians Be Poor?

Is God against wealth? Should Christians embrace poverty to be truly faithful? The Bible says the love of money is the root of all evil—but does that mean having money is wrong? In this episode, we wrestle with the tough questions about faith and finances:
Is giving 2% the same as giving 10% of the tithe?
What does the Bible say about taxes and redistribution of wealth?
Will the poor always be among us?
Who is supposed to take care of the poor?
Let’s get real about the tension between faith, finances, and the fear of getting it wrong. Don’t miss this one! 
 
Last Weekend’s Message:https://youtu.be/CLTIWnx0E2U?feature=shared
 
In this episode:The (Podcast) Teaching Team ModelHal MayerCraig AltmanDaryl BlackMelissa Vicinanza