Pastors’ Hangover

Leadership Lessons At All Levels

We all experience failure—but what if it’s actually your greatest opportunity for growth? In this episode, we break down how setbacks reveal character, why humility is essential for leadership, and how God’s grace is bigger than your worst mistakes. Whether it’s in parenting, relationships, or personal development, learning from failure is the key to resilience. Don’t let pride keep you stuck—embrace the lessons, make the adjustments, and keep moving forward.

Called Out & Called Up: Church, Friends, & Boundaries

This week on The Pastors Hangover, we tackle the difference between being a contributor and a consumer in the church. Is showing up without serving like being an adult mooching off their parents? Why does real spiritual growth require community, accountability, and boundaries? Plus, we celebrate Melissa’s big news, debate the best Girl Scout cookies, and maybe even throw in some Super Bowl hot takes. Don’t miss it!
Easter 2024https://youtu.be/srVBqrAJccY?si=wpN93nRNCNwz7iK331st Anniversary of Grace Family Churchhttps://www.instagram.com/p/DFdY6eAvT8i/?igsh=MWJobTBlYjBkZWRvYQ==

Does Baptism Save You? What the Bible Really Says

Let’s DEEP dive into one of the most debated questions in Christianity: Does baptism save you? We’ll explore why different denominations view baptism so differently and unpack the scriptures like Mark 16:16, Acts 2:38, and Matthew 28:19. Is infant baptism enough, or is personal belief the key? 
 
We also look at what it means to be "born of water and the Spirit" and whether being baptized without truly understanding its significance has any bearing on salvation. Tune in for clarity on a topic that can leave many questioning what the Bible really says.
 
Zone At Home Podcast: https://zoneathome.podbean.com/
 
Join A Group: https://gfcflorida.com/groups
 
Baptism in the USF Fountain: https://www.instagram.com/reel/C_A11jLxslD/
 
In This Episode:
Hal Mayer
Jonathan Starrett 
Nate Richie
Melissa Vicinanza

Why Forgiveness Feels Impossible—Predestination and Revivals

In this episode, we dive deep into the power of confession and what it means to truly forgive, even when someone isn’t sorry. We’ll tackle tough questions like: What’s the difference between vengeance and justice? Can we control God’s plan, or are we destined to follow it? Plus, a candid discussion on the revival movements happening today—how can we tell if they’re a genuine move of the Holy Spirit or just trendy moments? Join us for a thought-provoking and soul-stirring conversation.
Last Weekend's Message:
https://youtu.be/HUQYYOTGudM?si=l1c4Dnjskh_ExqYq

Heaven Isn’t Guaranteed: Navigating suffering, wildfires, and plot twists

As the Buccaneers face a tough season end, we dive deeper into life’s bigger losses and challenges. Why do bad things happen? What can we learn from the wildfires raging in California and the suffering in Job’s life? Join us as we discuss how God never wastes devastation, the power of prayer in hard times, and how suffering can draw us closer to Him. Plus, a conversation about Saul’s transformation to Paul, the meaning of biblical name changes, and why God’s plan always holds purpose—even when it hurts.
Latest Message: https://youtu.be/gmfmD2EZ1vU

Breaking Generational Curses and Speaking Blessings

Kicking off this episode with a bang - Unless you're Pastor Hal then we're sorry for not being patient... We dive into breaking free from generational curses and habits, exploring how the power of your words can shape your life and unleash blessings from God. What’s the difference between curses and habits, anyway?
How can you set the tone for 2025 by hearing from God and embracing His plan? Plus, we’ll chat through the new church logo after 30 years of history!! Don’t miss this candid and chaotic start to the new year!

How to Thrive Spiritually and Personally in 2025: Big News and Bigger Goals

In this exciting New Year episode of The Pastors Hangover, we kick off 2025 with a BIG announcement (spoiler alert: it’s literally life-changing!) and dive into the heart of what it means to thrive spiritually and personally in the year ahead.
Explore the balance between trusting God’s plan and pursuing ambitious goals. Learn how to set faith-centered resolutions, invite God into your daily plans, and focus on what truly matters this year. Whether you're feeling pumped for 2025 or stuck reflecting on missed opportunities in 2024, this episode is packed with wisdom, encouragement, and practical steps to help you start strong.
Let’s make 2025 a year of growth, grace, and God-led purpose! God’s Got This!
Groups Launching This Year: http://gfcflorida.com/groups

The Wisemen Walked, You Stayed Home: Finding Jesus in 2025

The journey of the Wisemen wasn’t just a story—it’s a challenge. Why did they travel so far while others closer to Jesus missed Him completely? In this episode, we unpack the lessons of Christmas through the eyes of the Wisemen, Mary, and Joseph. From the parenting fail of losing Jesus to asking where our own “star” is today, we’ll dive deep into the modern-day struggle of finding Jesus in a world full of distractions.
Plus, we’ll tackle the big question: What if you feel like you have nothing to bring to God? Don’t stay home—join us for this episode and finish the year strong chasing after Him.
Candlelight Christmas Eve Services: http://christmasatgrace.com
Last Weekend's Message:https://youtu.be/pdO_SG0psG4?si=uMk9ffHq3zT-6NIy

The Bible Isn't About You... Jesus' Birthday and Parenting Lessons

Happy ALMOST Birthday Jesus! Dive into this episode of The Pastors Hangover as we unpack the profound truth that the Bible isn’t about us. We’ll explore the significance of Jesus’ birth (and why His exact birthday isn’t in the Bible) and uncover valuable parenting lessons from the life of Joseph, the earthly father of Jesus. What can dads and stepdads today learn from Joseph’s faith, humility, and strength? And how does understanding God’s bigger story reshape the way we approach Scripture? Tune in for deep insights, fresh perspectives, and practical takeaways for your faith journey.

Christmas and the Role of Women Today: Mother Mary’s Story

The Christmas story is filled with awe and wonder, and at the heart of it is Mary—a young, humble woman chosen by God to carry out an extraordinary plan. In this episode, we dive into the significance of Mary’s legacy and her pivotal role in the birth of Jesus. What made her “yes” to God so powerful, and what can her faith teach us about embracing God’s plans, even when they seem overwhelming?
 
Has the Christmas Hangover started yet? Not yet, as Pastor Hal is on vacation prepping for the rest of the year! While missing Pastor Hal, we explore how the Christmas story reminds us of God’s ability to use the ordinary to accomplish the extraordinary and how this season can reignite our faith and anticipation for His miracles.
 
Awkward Family Christmas Episode 1: https://youtu.be/O4bgfoKHUfA?feature=shared
 
Groups are open for next year! http://gfcflorida.com/groups